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Monday, 16 September 2013

Introducing our Princess

Salam semua...

Lama betul xbersiaran kan? ada yang rindu ke? hehee... 2 bln cuti bersalin mmg sgt malas nk duduk menghadap laptop...nk update guna tab sgtlah leceh...so pape status I juz update kat FB je...So arini dah start working again, but keje2 blm lagi hand over back to me jadi blh la spend time kejap update blog yg dh bersawang nih...huhuu

Alhamdulillah Mama selamat melahirkan seorg puteri kali ni sbg permata keluarga kecik kami...Syukur ke hadrat Ilahi, Puteri kami lahir sempurna sifat fizikalnya dan macam Zameer juga, baby xde masalah jaundice...Entry kali ni kita introduce baby je dulu ea...pengalaman bersalin akan dicitekan di entry lain, InsyaAllah...

First few week of life...
 Nama diberi ZARA NAAZNEEN ALISYA yang membawa maksud Puteri Cantik Dilindungi Tuhan... Dengan doa dan harapan Puteri kami sentiasa di bawah lindungan dan rahmat Allah...amin...

Ramai kata rupa saya sgt mirip Abg Zameer...huhuu
Dilahirkan pada 17/07/13, 10.55am di Hospital Bersalin UMRA (luckily I got the same room and bed as I admitted to deliver Zameer last time...huhuu) via Elective Casearean... Zara lahir seberat 3.33kg dan ketinggian 51cm...

In a month, Zara growth to 4.4kg and 55cm...and now in 2 months old, she already 5.3kg and 61cm...huhuu...berkat susu ibu kot! semua tegur baby Zara besar berbanding usia dia...sekali pandang ramai yg ingat Zara dh 4 ke 5 bln...huhuu...dan yang paling kelakar bila tiap kali pegi check up kat KK dgn nenek, nurse mesti ckp "ni mesti tinggi ikut ayah dia ni kan?" hahahaaa...tau la Mama dia ni xcukup tinggi!

Permata hati Mama Papa...
Alhamdulillah Zara sangat senang diasuh...macam abg Zameer dulu jugak Zara sgt kurang berjaga malam...kenyang susu trs tido...cuma first week tu mmg Zara kerap berjaga sbb xcukup kenyang bila direct feed ngan Mama...so I got an idea to prepare EBM before sleep at night, bila Zara bangun Mama bg dia bottle feeding 3oz trs terlena...so, I got enough rest at night...Nenek pon xbyk kena tolong bila baby pon xsusah dijaga, so xde la susahkan nenek sgt time pantang aritu...

For healing purpose, I consume Shaklee product...Sangat berpuas ati sbb sepanjang berpantang Mama rasa cukup stamina dan sihat sentiasa...lps semggu berpantang dh blh tlg2 nenek wat keje umah cam basuh pinggan or jemur pakaian anak2...huhuu...tu pon kena tegur gak la ngan nenek...

Syukur sekali lagi sbb kali ni niat tuk fully BF baby Zara dpt dilaksanakan...tp Mama masih lagi diperingkat beginner in breast feeding journey ni and still byk kena bljr lagi...Pagi tadi pon bila pack brg2 tuk anak2 and brg tuk ke ofis baru terasa cabaran seorg ibu yg bekerjaya yg berusaha tuk fully BF anaknya...terlalu byk brg tuk di pek dan andainya ada brg yg tercicir, maka bermasalah la kat ofis nnt tuk sesi pam susu...Jadinya skrg Mama dh xpyh kelek hand bag g ofis, cukup dgn Momma Bag yg consist all the Breast Pump and parts, cooler bag and accesories...Moga Allah kuatkan hati ni tuk trskan niat murni ni...amin...

Ok, that's all for now...will catch up later to post other entry...Thanks for reading...

Wednesday, 10 July 2013

Vaccinations issue

Salam semua...

Just to share the article wrote by Dr. Fazilah Filzah, a paediatrician of Sg Buloh Hospital....Taken by Barely Supermom's Blog...

Dear BarelySupermommy readers,
      I reckon that some of you may have your own stand on this matter- vaccination. While some of you may disagree, I believe majority of us still believe in vaccination as an effective preventive measure to combat certain infectious diseases. However, the last few months or so, someone may have spoken to you or you may have read on Facebook – that vaccination is not what it seemed. That it is not safe , causes autism, not ‘halal’ and that vaccines are only for profits. You googled. There were many articles on the pros but there were quite a lot on the cons as well. You read the disadvantages of vaccination and then everything seem to weigh on you. You cant help it but started to wonder if they were all true.
      I believe that most misconceptions and controversies regarding vaccination stems from the fact that people underestimate the disease and overestimate the side effects. While I agree that Adverse Event Following Immunization (AEFI) do sometimes occur , most are mild (e.g fever and soreness) and disappears rather quickly. I am sure most mothers out there would agree, having had your children vaccinated before. On the contrary, I believe not many of you have seen the diseases at their worst. Measles, for example, may be fever and red spots to most but are you aware that it can spread to the brain and cause death? Pertussis, may begin with the usual fever and cough but as it progress to the second stage of the disease, babies may have prolonged cough, turn blue and stop breathing. Polio was almost eradicated but sadly, on the rise in certain third world countries where the vaccination rate is low. Meningitis, or inflammation of the brain lining caused by Haemophilus Influenza may render a child debilitated and even cause death. Whether you like it or not , the truth is vaccination has tremendously reduce the burden of infectious diseases and has prevented deaths in millions of children all around the world.
      Let’s discuss a little bit about the history of vaccines and how it works before discussing the issues because I feel that we would be able to appreciate what we have today if we knew how it all began. Have you ever heard of smallpox? Some of you may have not heard of it because the disease is no longer around. But do you know that the deadly disease was one of the most devastating diseases in the history of mankind and has in fact killed more than 500 millions people for many centuries? 500 millions! But thanks to Edward Jenner, whose work contributed to the development of vaccines, smallpox was eradicated and we don’t have to live to see our loves one dying from the disease.
      How does vaccines work? Simply put, imagine a child who develops chicken pox for example, they will rarely contract the disease again . Why? Because the immune system has memory, so that the next time the child is exposed to the virus, the body remembers and destroys the virus even before it causes sickness. And vaccines works the same way, only artificially. Vaccines contains weakened or killed form of the germs, when introduced into the body triggers an immune response without causing the disease. So that the next time the children are exposed to the virus or bacteria, their antibodies would be able to recognize it and combats it.
      I remember 3 years ago, a child was admitted to the ward for lung infection. Upon asking the immunisation history, we found out that the child was not vaccinated. In fact, none of his siblings were. I started to counsel the parents but I was quickly dismissed. They felt strongly against vaccination and did not want to discuss any further. Kata mereka ‘ anak anak yang lain semua okay je, tak pernah sakit pun walaupun tak divaksin’. I wanted to tell them about ‘herd immunity’ but then dropped the idea.
      What is ‘herd immunity’? In other words, it’s called ‘community’ immunity. It occurs when majority of the population is vaccinated, and the immunity that is achieved by the community would be able to protect those who could not be vaccinated (due to medical reason , HIV, immunosuppresed children). I think that this has not been sufficiently emphasized- that when you get your child vaccinated , you not only protect your child from the infectious diseases but also other kids who are unfortunate enough to have low immunity to be vaccinated. I cant emphasize enough that you are doing a good deed if you get your child vaccinated. But when the rate of vaccination falls, the herd immunity is lost, and I guess you can figure out what comes next.
      Having understood the basics, let’s move on to one of the most common misconception about vaccination, in particularly with the MMR vaccines. Does it cause autism? The answer is no, it does not. The scare started in 1998, when a medical journal, The Lancet published a study by Mr. Andrew Wakefield, MD (previously hold the title Dr) that stated that the combined MMR vaccine was linked to autism. However, not long after that, The Lancet itself withdrew the article and Wakefield lost his medical licence. Investigations proved that Wakefield’s research was fraud, unfounded and biased and that there were conflict of interest. His article has led to a drop in vaccination in UK and since then, many studies were done to look into whether there were any association between the MMR and autism, but none were found. Despite that, it’s sad to know that even after 2 decades, some people still believe that it does. Sigh…
The other concern is regarding the use of Thiomersal in the vaccines. Thiomersal is a mercury-based preservative that helps prevent bacterial growth in vaccines and helps maintain the effectiveness of the vaccines. Thiomersal contains ethylmercury, which basically means that it is eliminated from the body quickly and does not reach toxic level in the blood, unlike methymercury. The level of Thiomersal in the vaccines are so small , even fish contains more of it I believe. The amount of Thiomersal in the vaccine have not been shown to cause harm or health risk.
       Vaccines are not ‘halal’? Hmmm… I must say that it is unfair to say that those who decided to vaccinate their children do not care of halal and haram. The Malaysian Immunization Programme is decreed permissible by JAKIM. In fact, our prominent Islamic Scholar , Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi stated that the lawfulness of vaccination in Islamic perspective is as clear as sunlight. It is the duty of every Muslim to ward off harm as much as possible, and while we all believe in natural ways to boost immunity e.g breastfeeding , taking honey ( not for those less than 1 year), Habatussauda’, olive oil, that does not mean that we Muslims should deny ourselves of modern medicine that has stood the test of time. I have always believe in complementary medicine.
      I am not sure if I have covered all of your concerns but I hope this helps. You may or may not be convinced and that’s okay , as I believe conviction needs to come from one self. If you are doubtful, read further from reliable source, discuss with people who really knows and perform Istikharah. If you strongly object vaccination, my only request is that you do not pose your views on others. I am writing this merely for those who has concern and doubts, yet has not dismissed vaccination.
      I strongly feel that we need to have these issues tackled at national level and it is the responsibility of the Ministry of Health to allay parental concerns regarding vaccination. The community needs to be educated and myths and misconceptions regarding vaccination should not be allowed to spread, or we would to have to suffer the consequences in the future.
P/S : Really good article to be read and understand with open minded as the issue became so sensitive lately...

Wednesday, 3 July 2013

WW : Doa Nabi Yunus


P/S : Doa yg selalu Mama amalkan time dekat nk bersalin Zameer dulu...dan sekarang menjadi amalan...moga dipermudahkan proses bersalin kali ni...amin...


Wednesday, 26 June 2013

35 weeks check up

Salam semua...

Semalam genap 35 minggu usia kandungan Mama...Kalau ikutkan semalam ada appointment tuk check up dengan Dr. Wan Ratna, PMC Sg Buloh...Tapi bila tanya Papa, dia tak setuju tuk teruskan planning bersalin kat PMC since my last report to him on the first day I went check up there...Papa preferred UMRA...

So semalam Papa apply for 1 day leave, banyak urusan nk kena settle...Mama plak dah terasa xsihat sebab jerebu yg melanda, plan mmg nk mintak MC la time check up nnt...Dalam kul 9 pagi, siap2kan Zameer trs hantar ke taska...terjerit2 la si kecik tu nk ikut sbb tau Mama Papa dia bukan nk tggal g keje kan...huhuu..tp pikirkan pas check up nnt trs nk g Klang settlekan banyak urusan lain lagi, IPU kat Klang plak jauh lbh teruk dari Shah Alam so kuatkan ati jugak tinggal Zameer sekejap...Papa dengar si anak nangis jerit2 camtu hampir nk kuar kete blk g ambik Zameer, tp Mama xbagi...huhuu

Dalam kul 10.15am sampai UMRA...Dan macam biasa, xpyh nk tggu lama2 nurse dah panggil tuk timbang berat, ambik BP and test urine...berat mmg dh xnaik2 dari 7 bln aritu, still 56kg...BP normal...Time check up kat PMC aritu, dh la timbang berat n cek BP semua buat time jumpa doc, test urine x buat pon...its suppose for 3rd trimester ni, test urine tu penting...

Teringat time preggy Zameer dulu, ada sekali check up tu my urine test showed very bad which is my urine contains lots of protein...time tu dh 35 or 36 weeks camtu...Dr. Rafi attended me that time asked me to do it again to ensure the result, and its remains bad...when that happens (urine contains lot of protein), showed that the protein was not absorbed by the baby...so, at last kena warded 2 mlm klau xsilap time tu...

After about 1 hour waiting, I have been called to see gynea....refer to my record at UMRA, my last visit is on 1st May...She asked me whether I had went somewhere else for checkup? I explained to her and showed notes that been updated by Dr. Ratna last time in the same record I got from UMRA...She understood if I wanna try for normal delivery at other hospital since my chances is 75%...so no matter if I still continue checkup with UMRA until we make the decision where to deliver our baby this time...

Bila dh borak2 psl chances and all that, doc suruh baring nk scan baby...The scanning process took more than 20 minutes...Doc explained to me that lots of things has to be observed in the final trimester like my condition now so it would took some time...doc scan and analyzed the baby heart beat, the flow in the umbilical cord, size of the baby's head, size of the baby's bone...at the end doc asked me whether I know already the baby's gender? I said known already from the detailed scan last time, but if doc may confirm again, why not? she just smiled for my answer...and yes, doc confirmed me our baby is a girl...hehe...our baby now is estimated weighted 2.5kg...agak2nya kuar nnt sampai x 3kg cam Abg Zameer dia? huhu...

Discussed with doc if we choose to deliver at UMRA, she explained...I should book the date between 38 to 39 weeks of pregnancy for cser, or else if I came after the 40 weeks, it could be the emergency cser (if this happen Papa wouldn't get the chance to accompany me in the OR juz like the time I delivered Zameer)...For my next check up is in next 2 weeks...so, we got 3 more weeks to decide where to deliver our baby...

Kuar je dari bilik doc, tetiba nurse yg assist doc dlm bilik td dtg tanya whether dah ambik injection tuk kancing gigi or not? nak je buat lawak time tu bgth nurse yg Mama dah ambik time preggy Zameer dulu...haha...I said not yet...Trs kena panggil tuk ambik injection pastu...adoi, dh la xready lsg nk kena inject, berdebar gak la nk terima...huhuu...

Kalau ikutkan dh agak terlewat sebenarnya tuk terima injection tu...suppose time check up kat PMC aritu lagi dh kena inject...hurmmm....so, I noticed 3 important things to be highlighted here about the service of PMC:

i)  No urine test been done even that is a must

ii) I have been laid down on the bed for scanned our baby for about 5 minutes only which is just to see the baby's position, the placenta is not at the below side...that's all...xpadan lenguh tercongok menunggu giliran hampir 4 jam...

iii) Doc not even checked whether I had took the injection that I supposed to take in the mean time

Bila kitorg pikirkan tentang semua tu balik, lagilah Papa "PANGKAH" PMC Sg.Buloh....Out of our list!

Mama pon makin buntu tuk wat keputusan nk bersalin kat mana...Nak ke gomen, I prefer to Hospital Selayang rather that Hospital Sg Buloh...tapi bila pk kemungkinan tuk kena cser tu ada, I really dont want to be cser at gomen hospital...huhuuu...dah compare parut parut cser with my cousin yg bersalin kat gomen, sgt teruk okey! xnk...huhuu...Ramai jugak yg cdgkan ke PPUM...bila bincang ngan Papa, PPUM tu sgtlah jauh dr umah neither my office...plus kena pikirkan jugak traffic condition in case of emergency nnt...

Then, I said to Papa..."Yang, nnt la bila nak terberanak nnt baru saya decide kat mana nk bersalin ea? tak pon bersalin kat umah je...awak jadi bidan....hahahahaaaa" Mmg kena cubit ngan Papa pastu....huhuuu



Thursday, 20 June 2013

Doa Yg Di aminkan Malaikat

Salam semua...

Sedikit perkongsian ilmu di hari Jumaat...petikan dari status FB Dato' Dr. Hj Mohd Fadzilah Kamsah...



Di antara doa yang diaminkan para Malaikat, justeru makbul:

1) Orang yang tidur dalam keadaan bersuci (berwudu')

2) Orang yang duduk menunggu masuknya waktu solat

3) Orang yang di saf depan solat berjemaah

4) Orang yang penuhkan saf yang kosong

5) Orang sebut "AMIN" selepas imam bacakan Al-Fatihah serentak dengan Malaikat

6) Orang yang duduk atas sejadah selepas solat

7) Orang yang solat asar dan subuh berjemaah

8) Orang yang doakan saudaranya dalam senyap

9) Orang yang infakkan hartanya ke jalan ALLAH

10) Orang yang bangun makan sahur

11) Orang yang ziarah orang sakit

12) Orang yang sedang berpuasa

13) Orang yang berdoa ketika sujud dalam solatnya

14) Orang yang dizalimi

15) Pemimpin yang adil

16) Doa semasa hujan atau bencana alam

17) Doa semasa Tahujjud

Moga kita berterusan berdoa....Wallahua'lam...

Thursday, 13 June 2013

Wedding my sis...

Salam semua...

Arini mampu nk upload gambar je readers...xtau nk mencoret ape...huhuu...

Wedding my sis on 1st June 2013...

Persalinan nikah pada Jumaat, 31 Mei 2013

My complete family...

Welcome to my brother in law which is no one will believe if I say he is older than me and my hubby...huhuu

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